when I get up wash them and try to get them to do anything, it just stresses me out. They are stringy, frizzy, hard to dry, hard to brush (The natural bristle brush that I have to use gives them frizz and static). PLEASE any styling help would be nice for these monstrosities. My husband and everyone I see says how great the look but it takes so long and you have to sleep with them up in a ponytail, so when you get up in the morning, they are a greasy stringy mess and look like a wig to me. I did not get them in the top of my head thank God because I had lost my bangs to bad highlighting in the past and wanted to at least keep them from being pulled too hard. These things aren't heavy, but the quality isn't what I expected. They are thin stringy and I want them off but I spent $800 on them!!! Would a different bristle brush help - like the Mason Pearson one?? Money isn't an issue. I just want these to look good and be less work.