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Ok i just had a miscarriage and my husband is playing the blame game why?
ok i found out this week i had massacred and i had my DNc yesterday and instead of my husband emotional support he keeps picking on oh the kitchens not done leave the kids alone they cans stay up if they want .maybe the baby got sick when you fell you for when you died your hair that one time ! i died my hair before pregnant! so he keeps attacking me why doesn't he get the fact i just lost my unborn child and he acting like an ass why? i don't wanna argue with him i just want him to hold me and say its ok why is he torturing me can any give any advice please!!
He is just having a knee-jerk reaction hon.... and trying in his own way to find some answers.
I am sorry you are going through this. I lost two babies to something they call spontaneous miscarriage and I know how you feel. I am 50+ now and my two sons I had after my losses are all grown up now but I still think about my two little ones I lost. They were my babies too. My man did the silent thing because he just didn't know what to do with his own pain. He couldn't comfort me because he felt so torn up himself. But he didn't lash out at me either.
I just accepted the fact he couldn't comfort me and I went and found someone who could. Perhaps your local hospitol has a group for parents who have dealt with a miscarriage? I found a gal who had gone through it and she helped me with my feelings and such. My man just worked his own way through his grief. You will most likely have to be the one to comfort him later when his lashing out runs it's course.
No one is to blame for this sort of thing. Nature just decided that your little one had some kind of problem and couldn't survive. It doesn't seem right but it is life. Stuff like this just randomly happens with no reason... Good luck and find yourself some outside help here. Take care and mourn the little one you lost... don't suck it up inside you because it will come out later and festered grief is destructive. Blessings to you and your husband.
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