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Why do men always run when you have children and are pregnant?
Okay, I have been talking to this guy for 6 weeks now and he is amazing so I finally decided to tell him that I was pregnant and he flew. Why is it men are absolutly head over heels for you when your single and not in bed with them but as soon as you mention that You have children or your pregnant they run away?
A few thoughts, because I've been in a similar situation. I'm a 24 year old guy, by the way. If I was only dating and in the "getting to know one another" stages of a relationship, and then she says that she's pregnant with someone else's child, it COULD mean a few things: 1) you are irresponsible with sex and possibly other things. 2) you are willing and able to keep a very large secret from me for a long period of time. 3) your previous relationship ended very poorly, and there is likely to be another man in this picture eventually (or several men if you have children already and are expecting another) 4) we're not on the same page in what we want out of life, or in this relationship.
Also consider the financial burden you're asking a new significant other to take on, and the immense amount of stress involved in this situation. You are asking a man to take on a new family, not just a new relationship. Perhaps he's not ready for that - or perhaps he had an idea of the family he wants to start, and it does not include being an adopted father.
Knowing what you want in life and in a relationship does not make you selfish, it makes you self-aware, which avoids many more problems than it creates.
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